Patterns in Behaviour

"Feeling used
But I'm
Still missing you
And I can't
See the end of this
Just wanna feel your kiss
Against my lips
And now all this time
Is passing by
But I still can't seem to tell you why
It hurts me every time I see you
Realize how much I need you"- Gnash

A song that is related to each one of us for heartbreaks and misunderstandings is very much the part and parcel of our lives.

The overexposure of the millennials to the complication of lives from a very young age , is a reason of constant rise of distrust among each other . More relationships are failing than ever, more divorces than ever are on the records and too many best friends pushing apart . 

In the fake connectivity brought by the virtual world , we have lost the essence of the truth . The truth which can no longer be flaunted on social media is not reality . In our attempt of living a virtual reality , we have lost over time the meaning and beauty of words that are spoken to make someone smile . The vulnerability that comes with being close to someone is now doubted as one's insecurities in the form of blue ticks on whatsapp. The happiness of a relation is now gauged by the uniqueness of the selfies and the 'cool' quotient of someone is judged by the instagram.

In this dynamically hyper connected world , I am still someone who loves to study the patterns of behavior of a soul. We are all a part of the Da Vinci's world that is connected to each in the form of patterns . And that is no textbook knowledge that I am speaking of here . Think of hashtags , aren't they patterns ? 

My love for reading people's behavior from the smallest of their gestures, makes me someone that is able to freak them out with answers to their problems and the prediction of their actions and feelings in the present and future. 

We are all made of the same of genes and emotions , in a thousand billion permutations and combinations of the proportion. And that basically implies we are just the same , with just a little different twist of madness . It is this similarity that wonderfully ensures we behave in a certain determined manner in situation that tends to confuse and surprise our own selves.

There are instances when we hurt someone in a certain manner , sub-consciously without even having a hint of our capability for this destruction. That's only because, someone else did the exact same thing to you years back and it stayed with you. 

We are all now exposed to variety of these behaviors globally . Someone's post on being cool as a single guy or girl became viral enough for a lot of them to break up with no reason , just to feel the same. Someone's take on sadness inspired and triggered a lot many to go to the depths of over thinking and anxiety to commit suicide. 

After all ain't we all a product of what we see , hear and observe ? The answer is yes and that is also the reason why there is a rise in not so faithful relations these days. Hypocrisy is seeping into our lives through social media in our attempt to achieve a feeling , that is not honestly ours .

So in a world full of hypocrites and the fake souls trying to become someone else's version of 'Myself' , how can we judge the truth of a soul that is unique? 

The answer is simple- 

Observe their habitual behavior patterns and cycles. The truth is in their patterns and cycles , not so much in their words.